Why NRIs prefer Indian families for their children … Good question.
These NRIs have got settled in various parts of the world and made their moolah now they want to give them something that will give them peace of mind in their old age too. They want to give them that social security that the other country’s government cannot give.
Values, culture of respecting elders, taking care of household and supporting children are still considered to be virtue imbibed into the kids irrespective of which class, caste, community, category or state they belong to in India.
Yes a Indian thinks 100 times before the D-word. Plus let’s add some more points to the whole dynamic intentions and ways of looking at this question:
Indians are adaptable anywhere in the world with greatest of ease.
Name, fame and status is what is offered by the NRIs in short a lavish lifestyle. It is relatively easy for the NRI kid to lure the already besotted Indian girl with aspirations and dreams of the enjoying the so called way of life.
Free Sex ? Maybe sounds nauseating, disgusting and very cheap too but it is a fact for many of the kids this is one outlet where they keep their libidos intact. These NRI kids are actually promised Indian virgin girls and loyal husbands.
The Indian girl would be a good mother to the kids and a good support to the ageing parents and in short a permanent fixture of household material. Patience in marriage is another way of not landing up in an ugly war in courts.
Socializing abroad is a pain if you have a bride of the same country where you work and stay. Having an Indian spouse really makes the mix and match perfect for Indian’s visiting them or the locals visiting them over weekends. It is a prized possession worthy of flaunting.
Belly to the heart the route is the same – love. Only here it is intentionally rigged. Indian spouses esp females prefer home cooked food to eating outside which these NRI kids have already enjoyed their share at pizza huts, hotdogs and subways enough of that would seem to them.
There is an unwritten code to be followed by the spouses once in their home ground – do as directed or face the wrath. A continuous reminder that stays hanging in the mind of the spouse like the sword of Damocles.
Domestic care is taken care of to the tee and without any complaints as culturally the husband and wife have their own set rules to take care of the values and execution are stronger in India.
The search is on for the same caste and if the spouse is educated the greed goes to a different level as the income can be doubled and the luxuries can be shared with double benefits to the whole family.
It is easier to entice a Indian spouse to take up American culture than for an American spouse to get accustomed to Indian culture.
Last but not the least – an Indian woman prays for the wel-lbeing of the husband and does not mind staying hungry for her husband’s long life.
Marriage and Life revolves around equality & money abroad…
Indians in marriage evolve around love & cultural differences…
That is the charm of an Indian spouse